Braddock on Bullet
Bullet is someone I consider a good friend and mentor. One of the things I love about Bullet is the fact that he has never let his age be a limitation or an excuse. He is twice my age and dates equally if not hotter girls than I do with ease. He has helped me on several workshops and we click well together because we have a very similar style and outlook on life. Bullet is one of those guys you say, “Damn…I hope I’m cool like that when I’m in my 50′s.” He’s in great shape, has an amazing life style, great attitude, stories, and life in general. Couple that with Love Systems training and he’s a nuclear bomb. I get a lot of older guys on workshops who say, “Yeah, you can do that because you are 28 and you have XYZ going for you.” I hate that for them, because I feel like they will go the rest of their life believing that. We often need to see a reference experience of someone just like us before we will accept a new paradigm. That’s why I love doing bootcamps with Mr. M and I love when Bullet helps me out. Mr. M is a 5’5″ Asian guy who is not stereotypically good looking who does serious damage and Bullet is a 50+ year old who does as well as anyone I’ve ever seen. They are great testaments to whats possible. There really are no excuses that you can throw at me that are acceptable. I’ve seen guys from every walk of life and with every limitation you can think of do amazing stuff and date amazing women. If you are willing to put in the work, you can get any life style you want. – Braddock
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Bullet One on One Review March 2011 by Puadan
I had an awesome 1 on 1 with Bullet this last weekend. I have previously taken the Day Game workshop and have had some success meeting women during the day. However, most of them were in their late thirties or forties. I’m 47, but would rather date women in their twenties and early thirties. I wasn’t sure how realistic this was, until I came across some posts by Bullet on the Attraction Forums . Bullet , as you all know, is a specialist in helping older men meet, date, and sleep with younger women. He’s a couple years older than me, and based on his personal experiences, has tweaked the basic Love Systems model to optimize it for older guys. Here, it seemed, was the perfect instructor for me.
So I signed up for 2 full days of training with him. And I have to say that the weekend far exceeded my expectations! We started off the weekend by going over theory and developing a personalized routine for me. There was an incredible amount of detail and I filled up a notebook taking notes. He had me practice the routine over and over and over giving me feedback. As he says, practice doesn’t make perfect. Practice with corrections makes perfect. Then we went off to do some approaching . He did some demos and then had me open sets and would wing with me. Watching him in action was incredible – he made it look effortless.
That night, at his suggestion, we went out for some Night Game. We went over the differences between Night Game and Day Game and, later that night, met up at a bar to practice.
The following day, we went over body language and voice. This was by far the most valuable part of the weekend. As Bullet told me, communication is 90% nonverbal and only 10% verbal. You can have the perfect routine, but if your body language is off, it won’t work. We went over exactly what I should be doing differently – everything from posture, eye contact, how to gesture, what to do with my hands, when to smile, when not to smile. I felt like I was in an acting academy. He also identified issues I had with my voice and speech patterns. Many of these things I had absolutely no idea I was doing wrong. This type of training and advice is invaluable and, aside from an acting school, not available anywhere else.
At the end of the day, he gave me a list of things to do and work on after the weekend.
Bullet is an incredible instructor. He’s got great game, is encouraging, insightful, and just plain fun to be around. He raised my game to a whole new level. I was very lucky to be able to work with him.
Bullet ‘s Workshop by Bruscki
“Older Men, Younger Women” was absolutely fantastic! This is were it gets real! I took a bootcamp with Braddock , Vercetti , Daxx , and Sinn a couple of years ago – obviously masters, but this workshop was the Holy Grail for me. Bullet teaches not just solid game but adds incredible tools for older guys with busy jobs and established commitments. This material opened every hot 20-something we approached – every single one, in the middle of the day on a crowded street! Bullet adds the life experience and personal depth that’s needed to get older guys out of our fears and insecurities and into practicing and enjoying the process as well as the fruits of our effort. Both he and Dutch were always with us, giving honest and insightful feedback the entire time in the field. An awesome teacher – Bullet knows how to read you and stretch your limits without pushing you too far out of your comfort zone. I’ll never, ever forget closing on a smokin’ hot exotic little thing (in a Nordstrom’s store at 4:30 on a Sunday afternoon) with a single, simple, powerful technique. Take good notes because there’s enough wisdom demonstrated here to keep you practicing (and succeeding) for a long time. Age is no barrier anymore! Thanks Bullet – you truly gave me back my life. – Bruce, age 53.
Bullet’s Workshop by Suey
There is something about writing your experiences down that helps to solidify them for me. So, I want to quickly write down my experience at The Older Man / Younger Women workshop with Bullet and Dutch this weekend.
I had been to a general LS bootcamp as well as Soul ‘s Daygame bootcamp , but this was different. Gotta be honest, when Bullet first started his lecture by telling us that we had to adapt our game as older dudes, I resisted. I wanted to run out of the room. “Age shouldn’t matter!!”, I thought. I was missing the point. When we started doing daygame , Bullet said I was coming across with a bit of a “please like me” frame. I was approval-seeking. His observation opened up a can of worms in my mind. Why was I being that way? After a little soul searching, I knew….it was because I was older. I was afraid that a younger woman might be on to me and discover my secret! So, maybe I tried to act younger than my age. I needed to embrace the fact that I was older, because it can be a good thing. There are advantages to being older. And, there was nothing creepy about approaching younger women — if I was gonna do it, I should feel good about it. That was Bullet ‘s point in the lecture. I didn’t have to try to be somebody I wasn’t. What a relief! That was the inner game shift I needed to make.
It was okay to be more kicked back… more grounded and masculine. Older dudes have experience. No need to try hard. That was the big adjustment that I’m taking away from this experience. Not that I made the shift overnight. When we went to the club for nightgame, I was fighting being hyper. When the club wasn’t immediately filled with hotties, I wanted to bounce somewhere else. But Bullet and Dutch showed me that patience and being in control are part of being an older, masculine presence. Sure enough, hotties started showing up. I ran some solid sets including one where I winged Bullet . The same sticking points came up for me in this bootcamp that happened in my general bootcamp : lack of physical escalation . So, while Bullet was making out with his target — a woman 20 yrs his junior, my target was getting frustrated waiting for me to bust a move.
Oh well, next time I’ll be better. The first thing Bullet taught us was not to beat ourselves up when we mess up. The guys who get really good just make adjustments in their game and move on. The quicker we say, “Next!” the quicker we’ll get good. Another key way to get there that we learned is with a He / She journal. That’s one of the techniques that I plan on implementing moving forward. Bullet is a stickler for the fundamentals. I think I need that and really welcome that approach. I want to start writing things down. Just like he did to get good.
Other key qualities of the bootcamp I especially enjoyed was… the small group of students. There were only 3 students, so it was practically a one on one. I felt like Bullet and Dutch really knew me and could quickly solve my issues while in set. The other thing I really enjoyed was how Bullet referred to his vast experience in the game. He showed us techniques he learned from other gurus that he adapted. We even learned some embedded commands. I always thought that stuff was creepy (mostly b/c of the gurus who teach it), but some of that stuff works, so I look forward to using some of those tricks.
All in all a solid, unique bootcamp where I learned about myself. I look forward to moving forward and making adjustments to my game based on what I learned. Highly recommended if you are ready to get real and learn practical game from an experienced instructor who walks the talk. Oh yeah, and Dutch was a nice resource for insight and suggestions that always worked.
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